Every year, parents of young children agonize over the question of whether
their child is ready to enter kindergarten. They ask me, "Should we enroll
Charlie in kindergarten this year, or should we give him another year
so that he will be a little older and more developed, and possibly more
successful?"
As an educator, I have worked with children of all ages. In my early career,
I spent several years working in American preschools and teaching kindergartners.
Inevitably, the question of kindergarten readiness arises from anxious
parents.
In my experience, teachers and parents, together, should evaluate a child's
readiness for kindergarten by assessing the child's social, emotional,
physical, and academic preparedness. The child's level of development
as reflected in his skills in these areas will indicate his readiness
for kindergarten.
Social Preparedness
When assessing a child's social growth, consider whether he or she has
participated successfully in a nursery school or day care program. Keep
in mind that day care centers often have kindergarten preparation programs,
but these are typically quite different from what the child will be exposed
to in kindergarten. The pre-kindergarten programs offered by day care
centers or home day care providers are generally not as structured as
actual kindergarten classrooms. Many times, children are encouraged but
not required to participate in the activities provided. For example, if
Mary wants to play with dolls rather than learn about different shapes
or colors, that's her choice. Remember that in most kindergarten classrooms,
the child will have only two options: participate in the group activity
or be excluded from the group.
It is also necessary to consider the child's social behavior. Is the child
able to interact well with other children? Is he able to take turns and
share? Does the child communicate his thoughts and feelings adequately?
How willing is the child to follow directions? These are skills that nursery
schoolers will not necessarily be expected to have mastered, but they
are skills that will assist with the child's social success in kindergarten.
Emotional Preparedness
The emotional needs of the child should also be addressed. If the child
has not had any day care or nursery school experience, kindergarten classes
could be a very traumatic transition for the child. The separation anxiety
may be acute in such a case. The emotional stress arising from this, combined
with the more structured environment and the more complicated social dynamics,
can be extremely difficult for a child. If your child has not been in
a day care or nursery school environment, I would recommend enrolling
your child in lessons of some kind prior to his entering kindergarten.
It will be helpful for him to begin to process the separation anxiety
and the structured nature of the kindergarten program before the first
day of school.
Physical Preparedness
There are specific physical skills that a child should have in order to
ease his transition into kindergarten. Can the child tie his own shoes?
Can he use the restroom without assistance? Is the child capable of buttoning
and unbuttoning his own clothing? Does the child have the ability to put
on his own jacket and shoes? Again, these skills are not requirements,
but they will help the child to feel prepared and confident in the kindergarten
setting.
Academic Preparedness

Academically, there are certain things that you can teach your child to
assist with his kindergarten success. Can the child identify colors and
shapes? Can he child recite the ABCs? Can he identify the letters of the
alphabet? Can he write and recognize his name? Can the child identify
the numbers one through ten? Can he count to ten and back? Has the child
had experience using scissors and glue? In my experience, the students
who have this knowledge upon entering kindergarten have less difficulty
making adjustments and learning new things.
Finally, the decision of whether a child is ready for kindergarten is
a personal one. As an educator, my advice is based on my teaching experience
and professional observations. However, parents and teachers can be assured
that if they consider the guidelines outlined here when contemplating
this important decision, they can be confident that they are making an
informed decision that will positively impact the future educational success
of the child.